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Debra "Debby" Elaine (Stokes) Harber

May 8, 1955 — November 30, 2020


Debby Elaine Stokes Harber, 65, of Tecumseh departed from this life to be with her Savior Jesus on 11/30/2020 at SSM Health Hospital in Shawnee, Oklahoma. She was with her daughter Tennille Graham when she passed. She was born May 8, 1955 in Lindsey, California.

She was a warrior of God, who fought the good fight of faith! She always put others before herself and never gave up when things got rough with her battle with cancer. Her smile could brighten up a room and she loved her children and grandbabies! She also had a passion for animals. She loved horses and her cat Comet.

She is survived by two sons Billy Jack Graham of Konawa and Chad Kenneth Graham of the home and his kids Allisyn Smith, Easton Graham, and Kailynn Graham; and three daughters Karrie-Elaine “Tennille” Graham of Mustang and her kids, Michelle Ward of Oklahoma City and her two kids Stephanie Taylor and Johnnie Harber, and several other kids and grandkids, and Valerie Standlee of Meeker and her kids Nick Cagle, Austin Roberts, and Anna Standlee and other children. She also has two granddaughters, Olivia Deaton of Ada, Oklahoma and her kids Graden Bonner and Hailynne Bonner and granddaughter Shai Nettles. She also has several brothers Charles Stokes, Harold Stokes, and Randy Stokes and a sister Sue Hatchel and several nieces and nephews.

She is preceded in death by her husband Larry Harber; her father, Clarence Stokes and mother, Tennie Nobles-Stokes; her brothers, Paul Vandever and Dale Stokes and sisters, Pauline Stokes, Wilma Stokes-Bogle, and Louise Stokes-Reeves.

Memorial service will be Sunday, December 13, 2020 at 3:00 PM at Tecumseh Pentecostal Church of God located at 210 W Washington in Tecumseh with Pastor Fred Owens officiating.

Arrangements are under the direction of OK Cremation & Funeral Home, Oklahoma City.

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Memorial Service

Sunday, December 13, 2020

Starts at 3:00 pm (Central time)

Tecumseh Pentecostal Church of God

210 West Washington Street, Tecumseh, OK 74873

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